Support
You don't have to figure this out alone
These organizations offer real support — for you, your partner, or both of you together.
Being in a relationship with someone who has BPD can be isolating. The resources below are here to help you find guidance, community, and professional support.
NAMI — National Alliance on Mental Illness
NAMI offers education programs, support groups, and a helpline for family members and loved ones of people living with mental illness, including BPD.
BPD Central
A comprehensive resource hub for family members and partners of people with BPD. Includes articles, books, and a directory of therapists who specialize in BPD.
TARA4BPD
Treatment and Research Advancements for BPD. Provides family education programs and connects loved ones with evidence-based treatment options.
DBT Self Help
A community-driven resource explaining Dialectical Behavior Therapy — the gold-standard treatment for BPD — so partners can better understand what their loved one may be working through.
Psychology Today — Therapist Finder
Find a therapist near you who specializes in BPD or relationship support. Filter by insurance, location, and specialty to find the right fit.
Crisis Text Line
If you or your partner are in crisis, text HOME to 741741 to reach a trained crisis counselor — free, confidential, and available 24/7.
Reaching out is a sign of strength — for yourself and for your relationship.